Grab some popcorn, ladies! Here are 10 relationship tips straight from men—because sometimes, the best advice comes right from the source.
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Relax! – Sometimes it takes us a while to respond to messages. We’re not ignoring you—life happens, chill, we’ll text back!
Make the first move in bed – Taking the initiative is super attractive. It doesn’t have to be 80-20 all the time. A little 50-50 would be refreshing.
Obsessiveness is a Deal-Breaker – Jealousy should be in moderation, but crossing the line into obsession is not tolerable. For instance, snooping through my phone while I’m in the shower shows a lack of trust.
Know Your Worth – Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities in a partner. If you’re awesome at something, flaunt it! Confidence is a major turn-on.
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Yes, we can have platonic female friends – Not every guy-girl friendship is a secret crush. Some of us genuinely value those friendships, so please don’t drive yourself crazy over them.
Be real about your interests – Don’t pretend to like something just because we do. Differences make things fun.
We appreciate natural beauty – While we enjoy seeing you dressed up, we also want you to be comfortable in your own skin—makeup-free mornings and all.
Avoid bringing up the past – Talking about your ex—even in a positive light—can trigger insecurities or resentment.
Don’t expect tit-for-tat – Do something nice for us because you want to—not because you’re waiting for us to repay the favor.
Tell us if you just want us to listen – We’re natural problem-solvers, so if you just want to vent, let us know upfront. It saves frustration on both sides.
Did the men make sense? Relationships are a two-way street, and it’s always worth taking a moment to hear from the other side
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